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evalilith:

kittykatears:

ADVICE FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT HAVING A GOOD DAY:

• wait until it gets dark and make tea or coffee or hot chocolate, or if it’s too hot outside make yourself a healthy smoothie with your favorite things in it at any point during the day
• put on your favorite underwear, it helps, trust me, it’s an old family secret (i’m not kidding)
• if you have a pet, play the “how many things can i stick on you until you move or get mad” game (bonus points if they fall asleep, extra bonus points if a family member sees you and tells you to quit it, extra double ultra points if they join in)
• rip a peice of paper into as many little pieces as you can
• go to animeseason.com and click “random anime” until you see one that looks completely ridiculous (or actually good) and watch the first episode. repeat if it sucked or if you get bored halfway through
• spend at least an hour making a music playlist for how you feel right now and save it for now or when you feel a bad mood rise again
• curl up in bed and cover yourself with blankets and pillows and put in music and just lay there for a while (sleeping is also good)
• eat everything
• drink lots of water
• it’s okay bad moods don’t last forever!!!!!! i promise!!! you will be yourself soon and there are people who love you very much, don’t be afraid to reach out to them
• you are lovely
• eat lots of bananas

here are some more friends

• i bet there is still a box of crayons in your house somewhere (if not you can get them cheap during back-to-school sales); find them and use them (maybe while watching ridiculous anime)
• sunshine if you can manage it or just a sun lamp trust me it matters more than you think especially in winter
• hugs even if they are stuffed animals or your pet or your pillow whatever is on hand
• if you’ve got a favorite lotion/soap/thing that is scented use it liberally
• cry if you need, if it doesn’t start by itself or if you don’t want to attract attention put on a sad movie so you have an excuse
• write this down to pull out on future bad days:
• it is okay to have a day where you don’t get things done
• it is okay not to have a reason for feeling bad
• taking care of yourself is a worthwhile use of time
• if you still don’t feel better it is not your fault (and it is okay to ask for help)

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In my experience poetry speaks to you either at first sight or not at all. A flash of revelation and a flash of response. Like lightning. Like falling in love.
written by J.M. Coetzee, Disgrace (via books-n-quotes)

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lxzyfangirl:

seductrce:

Concept: I finish school. The job I work isn’t my dream job but I enjoy doing it greatly still. It pays enough to cover everything I might need. My bills are never overdue. Money is not a thought in my head. I have a place to live. So do my dogs. It is nice and warm, I have some plants, my bookshelves are full, my sheets are always clean. There is time to read at the end of a day. I read a lot. Thinking is a good thing. I meet up with friends regularly, old and new. They love me. We make memories. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I travel a few times a year, always different places. The places I see steal my breath away. The people I meet teach me of life. They are good. There is no war. The sea calls to me and pay visit. I am independent. I am content.

we are such a sad generation. the dream is a modest and decent life.

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spook-wolf:

ja-khajay:

MERGE THE LAYER KRONK

W R O N G L A Y E R

WHY DO EVEN HAVE THAT LAYER

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I firmly believe in small gestures: pay for their coffee, hold the door for strangers, over tip, smile or try to be kind even when you don’t feel like it, pay compliments, chase the kid’s runaway ball down the sidewalk and throw it back to him, try to be larger than you are— particularly when it’s difficult. People do notice, people appreciate. I appreciate it when it’s done to (for) me. Small gestures can be an effort, or actually go against our grain (“I’m not a big one for paying compliments…”), but the irony is that almost every time you make them, you feel better about yourself. For a moment life suddenly feels lighter, a bit more Gene Kelly dancing in the rain.
written by Jonathan Carroll
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